Gymrat wrote:I think this has a direct correlation to more and more people who have never been to church in their lives. Without God there is no moral compass and a person is less inhibited about following the inclination of their heart. The heart of man is always evil all the time. The only absolute for what is right and what is wrong is in the bible. People who have at least been to church as children have these seeds planted. On top of that we are living in a nation where people pop out kids to get bigger welfare checks. The kids grow up with out any parents who truly care about them. On another level a number of people are more into material things such as boats, cars, etc. than they are into their families, so even in upper middle class and above we have children who were never really tended to or reared properly. Then you look at the input these kids are getting, video games, jack ass type movies, saw type movies, and the list goes on. It all adds up to more and more people with no moral direction or conviction in their lives.
I respectfully disagree. in the us of a, a vast majority of ppl serving hard time in jail for murder, rape, etc come from a religious family or profess one religion or another. as a former Christian I understand your beliefs because they were once mine too; however I have since learned that one does not need "God" to be morally upright or ethical or "good". I am an atheist. I cast aside my religious upbringing and yet I remain the same person I was before. I don't go out of my way to do 'bad ' things. I obey the law.. pay my taxes... and try to be a good little doobie not because I fear some divine retribution if I don't. rather, because I choose to. many ppl have always been atheists and possess a far greater moral 'compass' than most professing faithful ive ever known.
things like this are getting more and more prevalent because parents have stopped being parents over the last 20 years or so. kids learn there are no consequences for their actions because parents would rather be their kid's friends... or because if they did discipline them, the kid can call the cops and have their parents arrested for 'abuse'. add to this the fact that parents tend to be totally clueless and their mentally ill children go undiagnosed until the timebomb in their head goes boom. to illustrate: I come from a loving family... far from perfect but loving. back in the 80s I was severely depressed. I wanted very much to die and no one in my family 'got it'. rather than getting help I got 'cheer up! it cant be that bad!' or 'pull yourself up by your bootstraps!'... offered out of love but it did nothing to help. a decade or so later I confessed to my mom how close I was to suicide then and she turned ghostly white... 'why didn't you say something??? we didn't know?'. um... ok. so family can be totally dense.. and kids are being brought up to just bottle things up on the inside.
another contributing factor: kids are too dependent upon tech and have too much access to it. when I was a kid bullies confronted you in the playground, shoved you down, called you a sissy and stole your lunch money. now? they post horrible things about you on facebook and other social media... which goes viral... and soon a kid feels totally overwhelmed by cyber bullies. again this has at its roots the belief that their actions have no direct consequences... and I bet you dollars to donuts if you asked the bullies if they believed in 'god' a majority would say yes.
anyway... beliefs are like anuses... we all have them. this could rapidly turn into a theological debate which is far from my intent. I just wish to point out that the 'root' cause of these events is far greater than whether or not a kid was ever taken to church. over-simplification of a problem is not the best method of attacking it or fixing it.